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Long Distance Online Relationship With Filipina
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Posted 05 August 2018 - 05:07 AM
I was in LDR relationship too and I never fooled around and yet I was with this guy that never appreciated it. So paranoid and creates non existent things in his head. He was also brain washed by forums like this so he judged me according to what he reads around and not really knowing me. He thinks that all Filipinas are like this and like that.. lol I tell you not all... really. There are those that are golden if you treat them well, they are just human beings.
It also depends on the core values of the girl you are talking to so good luck and all the best!
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Posted 05 August 2018 - 07:51 AM
When I still lived outside the Phils, I had one that was going relatively well.
Met her on a dating site, not a P4P girl. Came here, met her, her extended family and her friends. We were together for a little more than a year....and there were no trust issues...never asked for money. In the end, we just really weren't a match....she was a bit more clingy than I would like and she was not terribly motivated. We broke up but remain friends....she has since married an Australian guy.
That said, that's pretty much the exception to the rule. The other LDRs I attempted were something near train wrecks.
Before you get too involved emotionally (if you're not already), really think about how much, time, energy and resources you are willing to devote. Obviously, if you want to actually be with each other, it's going to involve travel...and that's going to involve money and a lot of time. It's a big risk for sometimes a very small reward.
Honestly, I'd never do it again. Way more stress than it's worth.
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Posted 05 August 2018 - 08:18 AM
Make sure you can afford it (if you're sending regular support), and don't think it buys you more than a place in the queue.
For me the best long distant relationships are friendships with freelancers and regulars who I can meet (or not) next trip, I make it clear I don't sponsor or send money but I do bring pasalubong if we meet up. Does it make a difference (pasalubong) ? I doubt it but I enjoy treating my friends and regulars.
Occasionally someone meets a p4p lady who wants out, or can see her shelf life coming to an end (late 20's maybe 30) who is looking for hooker retirement and is prepared to make a go of it, the concensus is non bargirls are the most likely good proposition but it's seriously a crap shoot.
Not for me, for sure.
Edited by jeffjones, 05 August 2018 - 08:21 AM.
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Posted 05 August 2018 - 11:00 AM
Or online relationship?
I'm not sure what you're really asking....
If an online relationship, then you've never really met her in person. But you will sponsor/support her and her family and her pinoy BF.
If a long distance relationship, well at least you have seen her. Possibly had her services and enjoyed the time. Now you will go home and promise her a better life for her, her family and her pinoy BF.
Fantasy or reality?
Depends upon your own view. The BMs on this forum have posted/shared many many many of their own personal experiences. The answer is not the same for those lacking experience or lacking real boots in the matter.
But our own experiences/mistakes are the basis for our warnings to the newbies.
"A thorn of experience is worth more than a forest of warnings”
-James Russell Lowell-
Edited by RAM101, 05 August 2018 - 11:02 AM.
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Posted 05 August 2018 - 11:45 AM
I was going to tell you about my girl of 8 years, but most guys can't get their minds around the fact that there are good women in the Philippines. Just don't look for them in bars.
I've no doubt there are, I'm not looking for them so don't care. The op might be, in which case I think he should be realistic about what a long distance relationship means or involves and the commitment/trust required to "possibly" make it work.
I still believe unless you spend a fair bit of the year in pi, it doesn't/won't work, two weeks once a yr is not going to cut it.
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Posted 05 August 2018 - 01:28 PM
What do you want ?
A girlfriend ? A future wife ? Just somebody to talk dirty with online ? (in which case may be cheaper to subscribe to a webcam or similar titillation site).
I have a long distance relationship with my bank and electricity company.
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Posted 05 August 2018 - 01:43 PM
I’m currently in one of these at the moment. It’s shaping into something that i don’t want.
If it is "on-line" then you really do not have any true relationship going on. If it something you don't want then Just Stop Chatting and find something else to occupy your time. If you are a member of the Lonely Hearts Club and cannot find a friend in your area then make a visit to the local animal shelter and adopt a dog or cat as they will serve you better than a chat mate whose imaginary relationship is turning into something you don't like.
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Posted 05 August 2018 - 08:31 PM
The thing that’s bugging me is the amount of phone calls. I spoke to her for an hour yesterday morning, and at the end of the conversation she says I’ll call you later. I thought ok so that will mean in the night time. 2 hours later she calls again. I told her I’m busy as the football game was about to start and I would be watching that. 1 hour later she calls again (well maybe fair enough that she doesn’t know that games go for more than an hour). So I don’t want this thing to take up so much of my time. I guess I could talk to her about that.
I want to see her again and all that, unsure of whether to pursue it as a future cause it’s a lot of investment.
Edited by Reznor, 05 August 2018 - 09:08 PM.
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Posted 05 August 2018 - 08:44 PM
Edited by Donho, 05 August 2018 - 08:45 PM.
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Posted 05 August 2018 - 08:48 PM
I’ll give some more details now to put things into perspective. I met her online, she is a school teacher from Cebu, I’m a school teacher in Australia so we had that in common. I travelled to Phillipines and met her in Cebu. We spent the weekend together and had a great time. We have been in contact ever since.
The thing that’s bugging me is the amount of phone calls. I spoke to her for an hour yesterday morning, and at the end of the conversation she says I’ll call you later. I thought ok so that will mean in the night time. 2 hours later she calls again. I told her I’m busy as the football game was about to start and I would be watching that. 1 hour later she calls again (well maybe fair enough that she doesn’t know that games go for more than an hour). So I don’t want this thing to take up so much of my time.
Don't misunderstand this, but the the phone calls, texts, Viber or whatever, will consume your time at length.
There's a 2 hours time difference between you (standard time - but more depending where you live).
She will never understand this. as NEVER in never.
You're a short call from being "married" to her..... according to her dream.
Like any monger here would say; F**c them and forget them.
Edited by Denmark2, 05 August 2018 - 08:49 PM.
Posted 05 August 2018 - 09:06 PM
Think through what it is that you want.
If you like having lots of personal time & space a Filipina can really challenge that, they will/can build their life around you and want you available to them constantly. Not all will, but I think more often than not.
Think it through, only promise what you really mean and good luck!
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Posted 06 August 2018 - 12:26 AM
The thing that’s bugging me is the amount of phone calls.......So I don’t want this thing to take up so much of my time.
Real simple solution: If you are busy at the time of her call - taking a nap, taking a crap, watching football, eating, drinking, etc - just put the phone in silent mode and do not answer the damn thing. If you allow her to control your time via telephone calls heaven help you if you actually get together. Man Up and take back & keep control, Filipinas culturally have little respect for weak men who they can boss around and if you allow it they will break your spirit and run you into the ground while giving their all to some guy behind your back.
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Posted 06 August 2018 - 02:27 AM
I’ve known many couples where one of them is working abroad or they are both abroad in different countries.
People do what people do. Don’t ask, don’t tell.
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