Hi Guys I need your advise most of you are more experienced when it comes to relationship and general shit from women...to make it short ...
I'm 30 been married for 2 years and known my wife for 5 years whom i met on DIA , she has 2 kids from her previous relationship ( pinoy bf ) whom she didnt get married too, that guy has his own family now so thats no problem , In the start everything was fine even thou we had normal bf-gf problems...fast forward 2 years into our marriage things have become really bad... My wife hurts me physically i mean not the normal slap or its real bad i have bruises on my neck and other parts of my body i.ve warned her many times not to physically hurt me ... She has a problem with my gambling habit but i dont think it gives her the right to use violence its a bad influence on my own kid ( we have 1 kid together ) ... She always threatens to go to the police and local authorities and use her own children to make my lifer miserable ....
I mean at this point im only in the relationship for my kids sake whose 2 and love unconditionally , this being her home country theirs no point fighting a legal case for my son laws favor locals here and itll only be a waste of money for me... My question is ?
1) What would you do if your wife physically abused not once not twice but every time you'll have a fight , my gambling habit is no excuse for her to do it to me
2 ) What law can i use to take my son back to my home country , considering his just 2 and most of the laws favor the locals and the mother at his age
3. Do i forget everything and start a new life , i mean my son needs his mom more than me and in the end will behave and turn out like her other 2 kids , shes not a good influence on the kids all she cares about is how she looks , her clothes and shit...
I'm on a TRV visa valid for 5 years and if my wife complains to immigration ill probably be deported so what game can i play to get my son her family is poor from cotabato in mindanao its not like shes born rich and educated to do this to me
Any geniune advice would be greaty appreciated thanks
Edited by Lobstered, 31 July 2018 - 02:09 AM.
Removed request for advice on illegal activity