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#1 ONLINE   maysa

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Posted 18 June 2018 - 01:39 AM

How do you deal with the Tampo..the sullen mood, sooky,temper filled rages these woman give you, f#ck me it's like ground hog day...every month it comes...I'm trying but my god it's driving me insane how or what do you guy's do when confronted by it? I'm 2 years in a relationship but just can't get this crap deltwith any advice guy's


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Posted 18 June 2018 - 03:47 AM

Check out this thread... https://www.philippi...about/?hl=tampo
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Posted 18 June 2018 - 04:06 AM

It doesn’t matter at all, unless it does. And then it’s fucking obnoxious. There’s no way to reach her until she comes back to whatever her version of sanity is.

At that point, my method is to share my feelings with her. I don’t blame her, but I tell her the way I felt when she did what she did. Then I told her why I felt that way. What need of mine wasn’t being met. And then I make a very reasonable request of her, explaining how she could bring about a better outcome for both of us.

If she still can’t control her shit when she goes Mr. Hyde again, you might be in a no-win situation. In that case, I’d have some carefully-timed business trips every four weeks or so.

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Posted 18 June 2018 - 04:19 AM

Wow, you experience tampo every month ? If you cannot simply ignore her then consider it a mini-vacation !


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Posted 18 June 2018 - 04:27 AM

Wow, you experience tampo every month ? If you cannot simply ignore her then consider it a mini-vacation !

 

When she chucks a tampo display, why not exit stage door left and tell her that you will return when she is acting better.

 

Have some private time and enjoy yourself instead of being controlled by the witch that has taken over your girls body hahaha  :D 

 

Maybe when she realises that she can't control the situation with her extreme moods then she will become more rational.

Rational !! Am i kidding myself here !! 


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Posted 18 June 2018 - 04:38 AM

I don't put up with it, and I did not put up with the silent treatment in the US.  If a girlfriend shows such a childish attitude - time for a new girlfriend. Tell her to pack her shit and go...


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Posted 18 June 2018 - 04:42 AM

You want major grief?  Try one with Borderline Personality Disorder.


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Posted 18 June 2018 - 05:01 AM

Tampo is GREAT. Shuts em up for a few hours. :):) :)
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Posted 18 June 2018 - 05:05 AM

I don't put up with it, and I did not put up with the silent treatment in the US.  If a girlfriend shows such a childish attitude - time for a new girlfriend. Tell her to pack her shit and go...

 

I have to agree with this. Why even put up with their shit? They are readily replaceable. My view is that if a woman (any woman including a pinay) is not actively adding value to your life, get rid of her. Life is short. Putting up with tampo is for little boys without the balls to put a bitch in her place. 


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Posted 18 June 2018 - 05:23 AM

Some good points guy's gives me more to think about And a different angel to view it..she is usually very sweet..but I don't like the slient treatment I get
So I think a trip into Angeles mite be in order for a few days of RNR if we can't get this sorted.
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Posted 18 June 2018 - 06:45 AM

Some good points guy's gives me more to think about And a different angel to view it..she is usually very sweet..but I don't like the slient treatment I get
So I think a trip into Angeles mite be in order for a few days of RNR if we can't get this sorted.

Had a GF(pinay) who every month went tampo fucking big time a complete utter cunt.bitch...sweet as pie for 3 weeks....guess that happens when they get there periods....in the end I couldnt put up with the shit so dumped her ass.



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Posted 18 June 2018 - 08:57 AM

If you ALLOW her to get away with tampo, then that is only the beginning of your problems, so you have to act

 

Three stage approach -

1. ignore her...but this will never 'solve' her tampo

2. go out for the night, don't come back until late morning every time she has tampo...show her who controls the relationship (3 months max)

3. after 3 months if she persists in tampo then dump her ass

 

Unfortunately if you do not control the situation then she will............and that is not where you want to be with any pinay


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Posted 18 June 2018 - 09:25 AM

If you ALLOW her to get away with tampo, then that is only the beginning of your problems, so you have to act

Three stage approach -
1. ignore her...but this will never 'solve' her tampo
2. go out for the night, don't come back until late morning every time she has tampo...show her who controls the relationship (3 months max)
3. after 3 months if she persists in tampo then dump her ass

Unfortunately if you do not control the situation then she will............and that is not where you want to be with any pinay


Sounds the plan mate...good advice..I was thinking to just pack up and move..I'm feeling so down..and I'm thinking f#ck that..it's my life..my rules my way..

Had a GF(pinay) who every month went tampo fucking big time a complete utter cunt.bitch...sweet as pie for 3 weeks....guess that happens when they get there periods....in the end I couldnt put up with the shit so dumped her ass.


It's not just when she's on her rags mate..it's whenever her mind goes to some place..she's like a possessed creature..ive never seen this shit in my 52 years on this planet..maybe bipolar or somthing ant right upstairs maybe to much adobo or sugar..😊

Tampo is GREAT. Shuts em up for a few hours. :):) :)


True that's the only advantage I can see.but the death looks omg

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Posted 18 June 2018 - 09:28 AM

Sounds the plan mate...good advice..I was thinking to just pack up and move..I'm feeling so down..and I'm thinking f#ck that..it's my life..my rules my way..

 

I speak from experience as do most expats who have had Filipina live-in gf here

The very second that you let them 'control' the relationship.....your fucked....it may take 2 weeks it may take 8 years....but your still fucked

mine was 5 years, KH was 8 years, Lucas was 6 years....but in all cases we lacked the balls....mainly due to kids being involved.

 

BUT with no kids involved I would never let it happen..she cracks tampo and you 'advise' her to stop or its the pavement....and she continues, then it is the pavement immediately

 

I recently broke up ....and my now ex gf who thought she was Miss High And Mighty soon found out that without pesos then her 'friends' disappeared

She has tried to get back together but I just say NEVER....however if you need money then you have ways that you can earn it...lol


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Posted 18 June 2018 - 12:19 PM

I have to agree with this. Why even put up with their shit? They are readily replaceable. My view is that if a woman (any woman including a pinay) is not actively adding value to your life, get rid of her. Life is short. Putting up with tampo is for little boys without the balls to put a bitch in her place.

Yep, never put up with that crap.


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Posted 18 June 2018 - 12:44 PM

I speak from experience as do most expats who have had Filipina live-in gf here
The very second that you let them 'control' the relationship.....your fucked....it may take 2 weeks it may take 8 years....but your still fucked
mine was 5 years, KH was 8 years, Lucas was 6 years....but in all cases we lacked the balls....mainly due to kids being involved.

BUT with no kids involved I would never let it happen..she cracks tampo and you 'advise' her to stop or its the pavement....and she continues, then it is the pavement immediately

I recently broke up ....and my now ex gf who thought she was Miss High And Mighty soon found out that without pesos then her 'friends' disappeared
She has tried to get back together but I just say NEVER....however if you need money then you have ways that you can earn it...lol


Cheers mate and thanks for the advice..thank God no kids with her..but today she comes in after work..still moody and cold..so I try again..but she's still on the broom..so I told her..well it's done..so enjoy the family back in the pigsty..eating dirty rice and dry fish..she'll move out on Sunday..I'll give her some money to help her out..but I'm done..now she's crying in bed..and I'm drinking some Jim beam..so when will they learn?..it's really not in there advantage sad really..but it's done ..Angeles I'm coming..any recommendations on a good joint to stay?..Cheers mate
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Posted 18 June 2018 - 12:58 PM

Cheers mate and thanks for the advice..thank God no kids with her..but today she comes in after work..still moody and cold..so I try again..but she's still on the broom..so I told her..well it's done..so enjoy the family back in the pigsty..eating dirty rice and dry fish..she'll move out on Sunday..I'll give her some money to help her out..but I'm done..now she's crying in bed..and I'm drinking some Jim beam..so when will they learn?..it's really not in there advantage sad really..but it's done ..Angeles I'm coming..any recommendations on a good joint to stay?..Cheers mate

 

If it was me I would treat myself and stay at the ABC hotel (approx Au$120/night) you have probably given her heaps of money over the 2 years, so now do something for yourself.

However if that is not in your budget than the Royal Amsterdam in Walking Street itself is approx half that price, older rooms but big and comfortable............and so easy to order hotel delivery...lol

 

https://www.abchotel.ph/

 

http://www.hotelroyalamsterdam.com/


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Posted 18 June 2018 - 01:12 PM

Cheers mate and thanks for the advice..thank God no kids with her..but today she comes in after work..still moody and cold..so I try again..but she's still on the broom..so I told her..well it's done..so enjoy the family back in the pigsty..eating dirty rice and dry fish..she'll move out on Sunday..I'll give her some money to help her out..but I'm done..now she's crying in bed..and I'm drinking some Jim beam..so when will they learn?..it's really not in there advantage sad really..but it's done ..Angeles I'm coming..any recommendations on a good joint to stay?..Cheers mate

 

She ain't gone until she's out the door....and then some.  We'll be here just in case.



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Posted 18 June 2018 - 01:26 PM

She ain't gone until she's out the door....and then some. We'll be here just in case.


Don't curse me mate..but I'll post a follow up Monday..

If it was me I would treat myself and stay at the ABC hotel (approx Au$120/night) you have probably given her heaps of money over the 2 years, so now do something for yourself.
However if that is not in your budget than the Royal Amsterdam in Walking Street itself is approx half that price, older rooms but big and comfortable............and so easy to order hotel delivery...lol

https://www.abchotel.ph/

http://www.hotelroyalamsterdam.com/


To true yes she had not only money but a new wardrobe shoes bags the lot..I'm not a low cun$ so she can take the lot..She did look after me..wash clean cook..so all good.but I'll see MrGoogle and your recommendations on those hotels..hope to meet up with some member's when I'm there

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Posted 18 June 2018 - 08:07 PM

I think, and pretty sure, if they get that way because of period and hornymones changing throughout the month, a doctor can give a prescription for that. I have no idea what the pills or medication is, some really get that bad with the monthly thing,  I dont deal with the tampo well either. and if i get pissed off enough with my asawa, i just leave, go out, go anywhere just to get away.   



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Posted 18 June 2018 - 11:49 PM

The chances of her leaving mate are slim to none.
Before you let her stay make a list of the things that she and you agree to. It counts for Shixxt but at least you will feel better when hydro eventually kick her out.

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Posted 21 June 2018 - 12:55 AM

Fluoxetine. (Prozac) is the need for lutial phase mood d/o. Dosing is different than for depression which is common use for this need. Something to try if you decide to stay.
Many other reasons for affective disregulation including tampo. Agree with others that controlling you is at core of much of this child like behavior .

Changing some ones personality is impossible to do. Of it's only a monthly hormonal shift meda can help.

If it's a personality issue time to consider other options again IMHO .

Good luck with this and kindest regards



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Posted 21 June 2018 - 01:42 AM

Its Thursday and no update!

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Posted 21 June 2018 - 03:14 AM

Fluoxetine. (Prozac) is the need for lutial phase mood d/o. Dosing is different than for depression which is common use for this need. Something to try if you decide to stay.
Many other reasons for affective disregulation including tampo. Agree with others that controlling you is at core of much of this child like behavior .

Changing some ones personality is impossible to do. Of it's only a monthly hormonal shift meda can help.

If it's a personality issue time to consider other options again IMHO .

Good luck with this and kindest regards



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I'd honestly say it's her personality and stubborn nature
I really don't get it..she has a good life and needs for nothing with me
I'm laid back easy going but shit when she's in her moody tampo..drives me crazy and she benifits nothing from it
I've suggested to see the doc BUT it's not her it's me 🤔

Its Thursday and no update!


Only Thursday mate give it time 😁
Well now she's home after work doing alot more..cooking washing trying to make her self look needed
Last night she tried the hug in bed thing..but I removed her hand and in morning I found her on the sala looking really depressed, puffy eyes haggard
Now I'm keeping diplomatic only answer her questions when needed but I'm cold towards her..No point in trying anymore as if I do try to talk I'm shut out or she flys into more childish behavior
Sunday can't come sooner let's hope it's amicable without the tears and wild histerics

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Posted 21 June 2018 - 04:02 AM

Good luck...






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