... interesting thread,, I have dated and married american, where the naughty girl is often unpaid and thinks hopping in the sack is a quick way to being in your life and getting taken care of,, every woman I dated in my 40's, no exception thought sex was her route to being a long term friend or more. My bad, I would enjoy and dimiss, what was it they had to offer? First date sex was a rule, not an exception. I eventually met and married a woman that did not put out on the 1st, 2nd. or third and thought wow!! Divorced 9 years later after $ disappeared and my kids old enough... sex was great 8 years after the wedding when the goodbye was imminent and self support was kicking in.. naughty girl...
The thread question is one of someone possibly interested in a long term relationship with a bargirl
.. Here in the USA I had a roomate who dated and had sex with three women he dated at the same time, not together. One was married, the other two your fresh friendly clean single girls who were not exclusive to him
The american divorce rate is over 50%, a definition of a virgin is often referred to as 'an ugly 3rd grader'... Single, divorced, I vacation in phil for three weeks, oblivious to the AC bar scene.. ignorant.. cherry.. naive . I go because I met american/fil couples that were successful, wives happy and homes that were warm. After numerous online meetings with phil women, I bail the online route.. I have a few days left an plan on sitting it out waiting for my return trip from AC. One nite, bored, I wander down Fields.. and into a bar.. I walk in sit down an note all the girls
on the stage...... Short version; I note a woman in the back, our eyes lock.. I look away, look back.. again.. eyes lock an she is THE hottie on stage. We sit an chat.. I ask how this works...she explains bf, no she does not. I am referred to as an asshole for thinking such. Hmm.. we chat til bar closes..
Watching the girls
on the stage, I watch expressions, the bored, the listless... I look at their eyes.. happy? eyes always tell a story..So I sit there, and think, watching... it is easy to get the 'knight' cap on, rescue mentality... we discuss life in phil, life in the USA. We discuss her 21 year age, my 57 years of age. We discuss family, she wants children, I am done, no more. We discuss her future, I wish her the best and a good success with a family. In our conversation I have learned she is a cherry girl, an what a cherry girl is. I like meeting someone that has more self respect than I did...next night, I walk in.. we are together immediately, we walk out I bf her and we spend evening, night and breakfast together, no sex...we kiss, play and no play below belly button...
Extremely short version: I leave, return to USA, we talk everyday, she leaves bar, yes I support her. We talk each morning and night, hers n mine. We send pics everyday. She is never in makeup as in bar. Her pics are stay at home hangout pics. Friend with China and Asia experience says do not do it, u r being played. he is cynical, has stories of women playing men.. I return, we have wedding date, we marry, no sex until, wedding night, when I feel like Captain Kirk on the Enterprise. I give her bank card, where I transfer so much per week.. return to USA.
Back to the thread.. Can you take a bargirl
out of the bar scene...?
Appreciation and respect are mutual and necessary... a naughty girlmonger an naughty girl.. an established relationship with benefits for both. A long term relationship with a naughty girl? and ???? Why would a naughty girl want a naughty girlmonger long term unless she thought he would have only one woman? How stupid is she? Why would a man be interested in a 'naughty girl' for long term when she is accustomed to many? (In the USA it is no different, doors close and the Johns do not see each other, and the naughty girls maintain more privacy)
Both phil bargirl
and guy are people with desires, and dreams.
The question, thinking of the Philippina.... no education... no family support.. pressure to not be a consumer in the family.. the pinoy catholic mindset, you are not a prostitute you are a dancer, an entertainer. Maybe sex with someone you like, or pretend to is not 'selling' your ass, gives the gfe..
Enough time in a bar, your co-workers barfining... getting paid to drink with the customer, getting buzzed, eventually selling your cherry...what is her mindset, a naughty girl? The guy thinking of taking her out, is he a naughty girlmonger, or... getting offered maybe a chance at a having someone in his life that maybe, might really appreciate him
.... the possibility is intoxicating,,,, or is the beer??!!
A long reply, too much time on my hands here.. a friend once told me,"Water finds its own level also"..
(maybe that is the answer, water finds its own level.... the naughty girlmonger finds the naughty girl... can the guy looking for more, find it in a bargirl
??? Is every bargirl
a naughty girl??? Every naughty girl is NOT