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[superfreak76]

I have been looking on some sites to meet girls when I come back to the Philippines. I have found alot of Bar Girls Looking for Vacations lately not just the Usual LFM ( Looking For Marriage) type girls. I post this to give you guys a heads up on this and maybe you can have can have as good of Luck as I have with it. They might as for money but say you can't send but maybe you 2 can go on Vacation when you get there and they forget about their sick mother...lol I would appreciate any feedback I can get. I use DIA. Dateinasia.com

[Craig]

just go to Angeles City - dont need any dating service to meet girls there.

[tequilareef]

Some of the smarter bar girls thrive on those dating sites. During the day, you'll see Angeles City Internet Cafes packed full of girls on Facebook, Yahoo Messenger and dating sites all chatting with guys, some of them 2 or 3 at a time.

The bottom line is: If you use any of these dating sites don't ever send any of those girls money from some sob story like a sick mother or father. That's the oldest line in the book.

Thanks for the observation about bar girls looking for vacations though, cheers!

[dave41]

I like the idea's of checking local internet cafes, and bar girls looking for vacations.
Will add these ideas to my tip list that I am building. I am planning on being in AC for three weeks.

[frallo]

Some of the smarter bar girls thrive on those dating sites. During the day, you'll see Angeles City Internet Cafes packed full of girls on Facebook, Yahoo Messenger and dating sites all chatting with guys, some of them 2 or 3 at a time.

The bottom line is: If you use any of these dating sites don't ever send any of those girls money from some sob story like a sick mother or father. That's the oldest line in the book.

Thanks for the observation about bar girls looking for vacations though, cheers!

U r right!

[Biggles]

I have Been using DIa for several years, and had some success. however, Many of the girls on DIA are very unreliable, they dont turn up, they turn up hours late, they hit you up for money very quickly, the photos are ten years old etc. If you are going to somewhere like Angeles, Subic, cebu etc its probably better to just go for p4p there, FL or bar girls, its available and reliable. if you are going to somewhere less busy, davao, e.g then DIA is a good option but dont be disappointed at the results if you get some disappointments.

[tequilareef]

I have Been using DIa for several years, and had some success. however, Many of the girls on DIA are very unreliable, they dont turn up, they turn up hours late, they hit you up for money very quickly, the photos are ten years old etc. If you are going to somewhere like Angeles, Subic, cebu etc its probably better to just go for p4p there, FL or bar girls, its available and reliable. if you are going to somewhere less busy, davao, e.g then DIA is a good option but dont be disappointed at the results if you get some disappointments.

Sounds like Filipinas alright!

I was on Date in Asia last night and I got messages from like 7 girls in 10 minutes, mostly from girls throughout the Philippines, a couple from Angeles. I personally haven't tried engaging any but they seem really flaky. As you say though, if traveling to other cities in the Philippines it might not be a bad option but I wouldn't put my hopes up high for them showing up....

[deepseacon]

Its hard to find one who is not looking for money on DIA if she is willing to meet up straight away.

But also its a good way to find out about different places here from there point of view PH that is.

Tagged is worth a look as well.

Have met some great girls on DIA though just for something to do but they are the same girls sometimes from the bars round the corner.

[dave41]

I have never though about using DIA for contacts.
Is this a pay for view/sign up site.
What are some of the other site recommended.

[Biggles]

Date in asia is a free sight. Overall I have had very positive experiences, probably met 20 girls in the last 18 months. my experience has been that the girls in the provinces are more likely to be genuine, they rarely get guys who go all that way to meet them. the girls in cebu, angeles, manila, subic etc have many options and many are bar girls looking to increase their income. I have had girls who have travelled two hours on the bus to meet up with me for a coffee or meal. Of course, I always refund their expenses as I dont want them to be out of pocket.

[Dex]

DIA is the best free site that I use, but I have been much more successful with filipina cupid.
Thought I would mention it.
Also use cherry blossoms, but filipinacupid is my main site.

[bigaallaann]

I have never had any problems in meetings girls from various dating sites.
You have to sort the "Men Out From The Boys" so to speak,spend some time chatting with them approximately 3/6 months before you plan a trip.Line up 3/4 girls and enjoy.
I also have a few I have met in the past keep in regular contact,always ready as a back up if required.

[Terrance Askew]

I have never had any problems in meetings girls from various dating sites.
You have to sort the "Men Out From The Boys" so to speak,spend some time chatting with them approximately 3/6 months before you plan a trip.Line up 3/4 girls and enjoy.
I also have a few I have met in the past keep in regular contact,always ready as a back up if required.

+1 on this....my current strategy, but not sure how well things will work with only 2 months time getting to know each other...kinda sad..i got some that are worth spending time with, and others i know im just going to bust my nut and run...its whatevs, if all else fails i can still hit up AC in my off time as i think i should be pretty busy with the online girls..

[Mr Tinkles]

DIA is the best free site that I use, but I have been much more successful with filipina cupid.
Thought I would mention it.
Also use cherry blossoms, but filipinacupid is my main site.

I also have an account with filipinacupid.com but I am only eyeing up the ladies at the moment so I'm not a paying member, which doesn't allow me to talk to them. I seem to get a couple people weekly sending me hearts which signifies they are interested in me even though I don't have a photo up. They can just sense I look like Brad Pitt . Must take a look at DIA

[refoman]

if you manage to find one that doesnt ask for money within the first 5 minutes of talking online you might have a good chance,unfortunately that doesnt happen very often!

[darkside]

if you manage to find one that doesnt ask for money within the first 5 minutes of talking online you might have a good chance,unfortunately that doesnt happen very often!

Sometimes I wonder if I live on a different planet. I have conversed with probably close to 100 girls on DIA, some for quite a long time, 7 of whom I have met, and not one has ever asked me for money. It must just be me, maybe I look poor or something!

[ramalamadingdong]

Sometimes I wonder if I live on a different planet. I have conversed with probably close to 100 girls on DIA, some for quite a long time, 7 of whom I have met, and not one has ever asked me for money. It must just be me, maybe I look poor or something!

I don't really run into these problems either. It may have something to do with my location being listed as Philippines. Once a girl sees that you are in country the smarter ones probably realize that you have more experience as to the ways of the Philippines and you would be a much harder target for scams. The closest thing I've gotten to a girl asking for money from me in DIA is requests for load after a few introductory msgs, in which case I ignore.

[Seasider]

Hi, I'm new to this site, in fact it's my first post. pinalove.com is a decent enough site, and new too (no, I have no involvement with the site, whatsoever other than signing up to it). I'm coming to Manila for the first time in my life in a few weeks.....figured it would be a great way to meet a few people, suss out the scene (I am a veteran Thailand visitor so I know my way around, so to speak). Good luck anyways.

[Marrickvile Mauler]

Sometimes I wonder if I live on a different planet. I have conversed with probably close to 100 girls on DIA, some for quite a long time, 7 of whom I have met, and not one has ever asked me for money. It must just be me, maybe I look poor or something!

Same here mate, I also have not run into one girl who asked for money. And Ive been on there since January. They all just send me sweet, funny messages and some politely ask whether I would ever go to Philipines to meet them.

Though this one girl Im regularly chatting with has said she has fallen in love with me and Ive only chatted to her for a month,she seems smart and articulate...but Im not so sure..

[Craig]

Sometimes I wonder if I live on a different planet. I have conversed with probably close to 100 girls on DIA, some for quite a long time, 7 of whom I have met, and not one has ever asked me for money. It must just be me, maybe I look poor or something!

maybe you handsum man

[Aud8us]

If I see one more gal quote, "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best!" on more time on DIA I think I will

[ash18]

If I see one more gal quote, "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best!" on more time on DIA I think I will

I just said fuck it and deleted my account

[Captain]

I have been using Filipino Cupid(FC) for about 6 weeks. I chat witht them and bring them over to Yahoo Messenger (YM). That way I don't get bombarded with chat requests, and YM is a much better chat tool. Most pinay ask for money, and I usually phase those out, so it is easy to narrow the list. I have chatted with 2 that were actually in Ghana, Africa, I deleted them also. I am down to one girl that I will meet. I will be flying to the Philippines in Sept/Oct for less than 2 weeks. She will meet me at the airport and she will help me get around. So, I will be just visiting the one girl unless we don't like each other, then I will call one of the other girls I met on FC, I have 4 or 5 phone numbers. I will also bring my laptop. My first visit to Phil, I am looking forward to the trip and meeting my new friend.

[casinojames]

I'm having some real fun with this site so far!! Just to keep the bullshit at a minimum my tag line says give me your facebook account and NO Ladyboys. This has cut down the spam significantly!!

Edited by casinojames, 25 June 2011 - 07:19 PM.

[Chivas]

Hi all.

I will open an accout on DIA, and need some advice about what to put on my profile to make the girls contact me.

I am off course only looking for a girl who wants to stay with me for a couple off days. Do you tell them this or what?