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[cebuok]

After reading the story of the 2 Cebu F/L and the one who workrd the Mall and got 2 or 3 men a day over a few days, and made 1000 to 3000 per man.. Is this the going rate for S/T for a F/L walking the mall and what is the L/T price...
Ive been to Subic and you get a little Hotie for 1500 EWR from the bar.. Can someone help with CEBU F/L price is 500 to
little for S/T??

[donkey1234]

It is entirely up to you and her. I personally would not pay more than P1000. Stupid people will pay P3000.

[Craig]

1000php ST is more than enough. 1500 - 2000php tops for LT

[bigaallaann]

What you are willing to pay is usually very negotiable with the girl concerned for ST or LT.

If the girl looks outstanding it is worth paying 3000 LT if she won`t go for less than that..After all why quibble over paying 500/1000 peso more on the average going rate of 2000 peso LT and regret later thinking I should have got that piece of ass?

You have to take into account what you would spend in a bar and the average 3500/4000 peso EWR .

[opaljohn]

Most will ask for 1k or more. Set a price and tell them its final. I have been known to tell them 500 for ST and have told them that I will give them a performanced based tip. Its amazing how suddenly they are really good and active in bed when offered an incentive. They even like to stay for 3 hours to please u.

Had one girl once, agreed on 1k for 4 hours ST, gave her the incentive and she was so good, I gladly gave her another 1k tip.

Still cheaper than the 3k wanted by bikini bars and the shit performance by the Bg's of late

[cebuok]

So if there is no talk of money and you Short Time a mall girl..and she fucked well, she would expect 1000 or 2000 L/T any thing above that is a waste
anything under she was a bit rough or a 30min starfish and could not wait to leave..so you give them 500 and fuck them off.

[opaljohn]

I have always set a price with the F/L. That way no confusion. Tip is always up to the guy, they want lots, we dont want to part with much unless theyre exceptional.
I just find its easier to set a price.
Remember its business, not love. If a F/L is charging you for her service, its just business, so treat it like business regarding price/payment

[FurryFriend]

Maybe I'm just going at the wrong time. But every time I'm at Ayala or SM Mall, I rarely see freelancers. I usually go in the late afternoons and early evenings.

Since I'm a young Asian dude, maybe I don't fit the profile of what freelanders look for.

So I did an experiment. I followed this white guy in his late 50s. There's no doubt he's a monger since he was wearing a "Angeles City Harley Davidson" t-shirt and was wondering aimlessly around.

I followed him to see whether girls are looking at him or approaching him. After following him for over 20 minutes through food court areas, not a single girl checked him out, let alone approached him.

So maybe I'm going at the wrong time, but it seems malling is an inefficient mongering option in Cebu. Some on this forum seem to imply the malls are packed with aggressive freelancers but this doesn't seem to be the case.

[bender01]

Sit Bos coffee I do and girls walk past and a smile will tell you if you can get her number

[opaljohn]

Bender is right, also a lot of the freelancers will go there at mall opening time if they missed out on bf the night before and need money. Many of the f/l's wont approach u, its all about eye contact.

One f/l I got with told me that most of them chase "new to the Philippines guys" as they are less aware of the st price and will give bigger tips. This might account for why Mr Angeles City Harley didnt get approached. He might be expat.

[bender01]

And make eye contact.

[FurryFriend]

For people who say that the malls are packed with aggressive freelancers who come up to you, I would like to issue the FurryFriend P500 challenge...

I will pay P500 if...

You can sit anywhere at Ayala Mall and get a girl to approach you. You can smile and make eye contact. But you cannot talk first and you cannot gesture to her. If you can get a girl to approach you in 20 minutes, I pay you P500. If not, you pay me P500.

If it's as easy as some people say, this should be an easy P500 for you.

People who say the Cebu malls are full of easy prospects are just passing gas. In all my hours there, I have not seen one girl go up to a random guy and say "can I come with you".

[bender01]

No one has said girls are that easy. You do have to walk up to them and ask. You really think guys are expecting girls to walk up to them?

But to get your 500 next time you are in cebu see if I fail your test.

Edited by bender01, 19 October 2012 - 05:38 PM.

[bender01]

Reading this thread no one said a girl will walk up to you are. So where did you get the idea guys say that

[donkey1234]

and say "can I come with you".

Do they have to say those exact words?

Without even making eye contact
- I have had women sit down at my table, without food or drink and without being asked. Then start a conversation.
- I have had women come up to me and say hello while I am leaning on the railing watching the world go by.

I have sort of had some one ask to go with me but they were looking for marriage and it wasn't in a mall. It was in a swimming pool on Siquijor. She was 19 years old and swam up to me and said she liked me and would I like to meet her parents who sitting at the side of the pool. Within 2 hours of that meeting, she was on her way with me and my friends to Bohol and slept with me that night.

[Titmouse]

The action is there at Ayala mall if you know how to follow up a smile. (Plug: My current Advanced Members TR "Back in the Saddle" has some info on my recent experiences.) I've had more trouble avoiding it than getting it. It's unlikely a pretty little thing will come up and say "Take me home with you," but if you trade smiles and she looks back after passing, just wave your hand (palm downward) and she'll likely come talk to you. After that, it's up to you to play the game. At the appropriate moment, I usually ask "So, are you looking for a date tonight?" I'm seldom wrong.

'Mouse

[johnyb]

Furryfriend, Ill be there in 5 weeks, perhaps you'd like to hang out with me and Bender for a while in malls, just pay our lunch bill and my beer bill and we'll happily show you how its done.

[FurryFriend]

Reading this thread no one said a girl will walk up to you are. So where did you get the idea guys say that

You didn't say that, but many guys on this forum have.

If you want pickup in Cebu, it's pretty much Colon or Mango Square.

At the malls, sure, you can approach 50 girls and I'm sure some will bite. But it's clearly not easy and a monger would probably have his time better spent elsewhere if he's interested in pickup. The few obvious FLers at Ayala are generally far lower quality than the street girls I see on Colon.

[hershey]

Some mongers like the challenge of picking up a FL in a mall. Picking up at Ayala is not difficult it's just a numbers game. DO NOT walk up to random young Filipinas and propostion them like a cold-calling telemarketer. Nobody said to do that. The FLs at Ayala are playing the game, they know the score and they know a possible customer when they see one. It's a game of eye contact, non verbal communication and moving in for the kill.

These girls are usually good for one shot for 1000 pesos but they may stay longer if you can discuss the arrangements beforehand.

Anyone saying it's impossible to pick up at Ayala is not trying hard enough.

Edited by hershey, 20 October 2012 - 04:42 PM.

[planecrazy]

This thread reminds me of a coworker I used to have who was from Ecuador. He was a sleazy little fuck that drank too much, worked too little and had cheated on both wives he had. And yet he always seemed to have some 19 year old girl on the go. Well, one night we were having a beer after work and i ask him what his secret was... He was short, not very attractive, greasy hair... didn't make a lot of money ... His response I will always remember... he said "I just learned that there is always someone who will eventually say yes. So I ask a hundred women if they want to go home with me and 99 of them will tell me to fuck off, but eventually I will get that one that always says yes"

ROFL!

[Kinky Kiwi]

Furryfriend, Ill be there in 5 weeks, perhaps you'd like to hang out with me and Bender for a while in malls, just pay our lunch bill and my beer bill and we'll happily show you how its done.

He said 500 peso, not 5000 peso. We all know you drink like a fish Jonny

[bender01]

This thread reminds me of a coworker I used to have who was from Ecuador. He was a sleazy little fuck that drank too much, worked too little and had cheated on both wives he had. And yet he always seemed to have some 19 year old girl on the go. Well, one night we were having a beer after work and i ask him what his secret was... He was short, not very attractive, greasy hair... didn't make a lot of money ... His response I will always remember... he said "I just learned that there is always someone who will eventually say yes. So I ask a hundred women if they want to go home with me and 99 of them will tell me to fuck off, but eventually I will get that one that always says yes"

ROFL!

Yes I sure I asked over 1200 to find my 12

[donkey1234]

but if you trade smiles and she looks back after passing, just wave your hand (palm downward) and she'll likely come talk to you. 'Mouse

Is your real name. Chris?

That is his exact method too.

[Chris in Philippines]

Furryfriend, Ill be there in 5 weeks, perhaps you'd like to hang out with me and Bender for a while in malls, just pay our lunch bill and my beer bill and we'll happily show you how its done.

Hey.. I will be there from November 13th or 14th too...staying an indefinite length of time too. Me too please!

I would love to catch up and share your knowledge and wisdom as I have always been in a relationship in Cebu...I haven't mongered or cheated one single time.

I am a complete Newbie in Philippines...if you want proof read my confession in the "I was scammed for 1 million pesos link" ..I wrote "I wasn't scammed but it cost me a shitload of money " post.

cheers
Chris

[Biggles]

"You can sit anywhere at Ayala Mall and get a girl to approach you. You can smile and make eye contact. But you cannot talk first and you cannot gesture to her. If you can get a girl to approach you in 20 minutes, I pay you P500. If not, you pay me P500."

I spend a lot of time visiting a friend in cebu city. I was meeting him for lunch on the terraces at ayala one day and between the time I walked in the front door and the time I got to the restaurant 3 ladies had approached me and said hello. Only one actually asked me if I was looking for company. I have had other girls pick me up there, just a smile does the job usually.

Believe me if I looked like Bender01 I would take your bet in a flash, its money in the bank for him.