This is our role, destination and fortune - we pay always
for what ever we do. It is more interesting to see what you get for the time, cash and care we invest.
The easies way is to come here, get your BG's pay for them and go home after a while. Just sex, no feelings, no trouble, no involvement in family stuff etc.
But if we start to stay for longer periods in the country, even thinking to get settled, have a GF, etc. then I bet it is us who get re-programmed in quite a considerable way. When it comes to a relation-/partnership both parties should consider each others likings, dislikings, live situation, family etc. If things don't match perfect, you can talk, if it still does not match you leave her or she leaves you. Rules should be tough but also realistc and the girl or girls must understand what it is about. Never stay if you feel looted or not well treated.... and make sure there is a good amount of respect her family pays to you! If they consider you as a silly sugardaddy your are probably one...... make a test now and then and say NO to something ...... you will see on there reaction what it is all about....
Also be aware your word is usually taken very serious.... if you don't keep what you tell you will not make it long without getting trouble... and be straight forward and honest.... they maight not like it in the first, but usually accept it if you have a point. It is important to know a bit about there culture the law and also accept it! Not everything is good what comes from USA or EU!
What do I get? A nice GF, sexy also in public what I like, absolute loyal and reliable, open to almost everything what I like, loves good sex, boats, sailing and the sea, fishing, learned diving, has a good sense of humour is prepared to company me to every place I want to go and this is usually not the Club Noah. Other girls, yes, can do, I'm sure sooner or later she will join for 3-somes! Religious issues? I told them from the beginning that I'm not a believer (to believe means NOT TO KNOW!) and not religious but interested in the history of all religions. This led to some very interesting and respectfull discussions with one of her oncles who is a pastor. Her family treats me as a member, respectfull, heartly and with care and love. So.... the re-reprogramming went to both sides.
Edited by oceanwhisperer, 08 July 2012 - 08:46 AM.