And I don't give a fuck if you judge me badly for that. I have been paid very well, and I've learned a lot by teaching sex and seduction to these married women.
I wrote the below to help a dude out on another forum, because he was unsure how to get solid results from DIA.
DEFINITELY www.dateinasia.com (DIA) rocks for finding the ladies of any age group you want. Totally free, it's easy to navigate and to stay organized with your messaging hundreds of girls. With perhaps a membership of circa 80,000-100,000 (mostly Filipino girls) - and more than 12,000 online at one time during each day in the evenings.
Tips to succeed are:
1. Stick a LARGE SMILING FACE PIC on your profile. Most of the girls hunt - like 99% of them hunt/browse. And they use the "Last Active" page to click on the pics of guys they like the look of most. Your wide and happy smile will get you truckloads of profile visits. They do ultimately want you for money one way or another (either by marriage or P4P), but they always start with your looks. So, say "SEX" when having your profile picture taken - looks do matter.
2. YOU use the "Last Active" page to click on the ones you like - they are all online then and there. A "mouse over" their pic will tell you their age and country. I actually "right mouse click; open in new tab" the ones I like, because on the refresh of the "Last Active" page, I'll normally find 4-6 hot ones I want to know more about - clicking directly on the first one I like will see that Last Active page refreshed with new faces and I'd lose the other potentials.
3. Search for your age range, city and of course country. Then visit their profiles. Many of these girls visit the profiles of who visited theirs. The more profiles you visit the more return clicks you'll get. That is, they are curious about who visited their profiles, and if you have the smiling happy face, you can bet many will visit your profile in return to check you out - if your profile pic is a big smile.
4. Always "Show Interest" in the ones you are interested in. It only takes the click of a button, and you'll be able to find the ones you've short-listed easily later. This is very important. There truly is so many of them that you do need this to keep track. Plus your interest shown gets you the highest chance of a visit to your profile. That is, you not only visited their profile page, you showed interest in them. And most women cannot deny their curiosity to check you out in return - if your profile pic is a big smile.
5. Never just say only Hi or Hello. That's the quickest way to prove you are fuckwit incapable of anything interesting to say.
Your first message on DIA is not like in a bar where you are face to face and you say hello; it's more like a first date. And the most important thing about a first date anywhere in life is........getting a second fucking date! If you make the first message, make it interesting but not long.
Let's call this messaging like a game of Tennis or Ping Pong, and it's your serve. Your job is to see how long you can keep the (ping-pong chat) ball flying over the net. Make your first message prove to her that you did read her profile, by commenting on her profile AND asking a question. DIA won't let you copy and paste a standard message anyway. Make your first message to her cause her to NEED AND WANT to reply back. Remember, you're not in a nightclub under stress - you have all the time you need to craft a next message that keeps the "ping-pong chat-ball" in play.
When you get more skilled at ping-pong chat, you'll be able to easily control where you hit the ball and get them to chase it. But do think 2-3 moves ahead. It's NOT about how long you can waste time chatting. Have a plan of where you want to take the chat. You are the man for fuck's sake!
And do use the : ) (with no spaces) keyboard shortcut, as they respond well to lots of smilie emoticons.
6. Keep your sleazy chat out of it!
There's and old truism or saying: "treat ladies like sluts, and treat sluts like ladies".
I do hunt for the inner naughty girl in women, but sluts only respond to respectful charm and humor. Sleaze is such a low IQ waste of time. I never grow/explore the naughty girl side of them in less than 10-50 messages exchanged first out of respect and trust building. Finding their inner-naughty girl without being a sleaze is the real key to success.
Indirectly is the way of Asia. Do you even belong here? Prove it!
7. Install Yahoo Messenger and a cam.
Almost everyone in Phils uses YM, and they will want to see your FACE on cam. Most are looking for face to face time, not sex-cam action. Certainly DIA is perfect for vacationing men looking for a 1-3 weeks girlfriend.
8. They are all very sensitive to butterflies.
We know you flutter around the garden of life, because you really are God's gift to fucking and fluttering, but it offends her to know that about you. So shut the fuck up about how many women want you! SHE's your focus, is she feeling special?
9. Don't expect a long profile description to be read.
Most of those who like me selected me on the (SMILING) pic and our exchange of (NON-sleazy) messages. My long profile was supposed to filter out the less well-read and lower IQ girls, but it hasn't worked at all. It's all about your smiling photo to get results.
By all means have a long profile if you want a smart girl, but dumb ones will still add you anyway.
10. Know your Chinese years of birth and horoscope star signs. Filipino girls don't know them - much less than western women. I've caught a number of girls (about 20) out by them using the wrong Chinese year in their profiles when compared to the ages they claim. They turned out to be 15, 16 or 17, and not the stated 18-21 years old.
11. It's still all the usual rules of pick-up.
Charming is helpful, being funny is essential. Talking about their beauty is DUMB!!! It's Ping-Pong chat - keep it interesting, not complicated and keep it flowing.
The best difference from real life meeting is that online in DIA, you get the time to craft your reply with precision, so use that stress-free time to craft your words well.....
Respectful always! Sleaze is a waste of time totally. You really are a low-life twit and you're masturbating in public if you think your money is what really counts before meeting face to face and before the sexual fun starts! It maybe important for her after the fact......, she does have to live.....but she also has some dignity, let her true sexual flower show itself with some grace.
.......MANY a bar girl has turned her nose up at a wad of cash held by a non-similing German or Korean and the (why is it the too often) arrogant American ego.....
I do talk about my love of sex AFTER I have built trust, but never about me being horny then and there in early chats.
They want to measure us (men?) when we are not horny. The best way for us to achieve that for them is for us to be a REAL MAN and to lead them with our own sexual secrets, gently. Let them explore us fully; it's not our time so early in chats to ram it down their throats. This ain't the jail-house Bubba.
She, just like in all dance will follow your lead. Talking sexual is not the same as being horny and out of control. They cannot open up, until they know it is safe to do so. Get them safe and curious!
12. Nearly forgot to mention. Logon and off every 30 minutes. This will keep your smiling pic on the "Last Active" page . Being on this page is what will get you most of your profile visitors.
13. This is VERY IMPORTANT. And I am a professional because of this! Every girl I chat with is a use of my time. I am always crystal clear that I am going to fuck HER, or she is going to introduce me to her friend/sister or whoever else that I am going to fuck.
I sincerely do treat every contact, and with my every message as my next fuck. If for any reason I am not any more interested in fucking the one I am chatting to, I immediately move my head-space to plan how this girl will get me laid by her friend.
If she is not on my cock, then she is my AGENT!!!
Evenings will see 12,000 plus online at any one time, mostly ladies. This later dropping down to still 4,000 by 6am local PI time. 90% are Filipino women.
Ladyboys are usually honest about it in their profiles. Just as well, as they'd often be difficult to spot otherwise.
Hope this helps.
Edited by Dancing Phil, 04 February 2012 - 08:49 PM.