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#1 OFFLINE   Dancing Phil

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Posted 04 February 2012 - 07:55 PM

I'm a ex-professional seducer - meaning that I USED to live the life as a Gigolo or naughty girl (mostly to married women in Australia, USA and China). Though I marketed myself as a "sex-teacher", I was basically paid to find the inner naughty girl in these women, make sluts of them and paid to send them home to their husbands thoroughly used, often shaved and much happier for the experience.

And I don't give a fuck if you judge me badly for that. I have been paid very well, and I've learned a lot by teaching sex and seduction to these married women.

I wrote the below to help a dude out on another forum, because he was unsure how to get solid results from DIA.

DEFINITELY www.dateinasia.com (DIA) rocks for finding the ladies of any age group you want. Totally free, it's easy to navigate and to stay organized with your messaging hundreds of girls. With perhaps a membership of circa 80,000-100,000 (mostly Filipino girls) - and more than 12,000 online at one time during each day in the evenings.

Tips to succeed are:

1. Stick a LARGE SMILING FACE PIC on your profile. Most of the girls hunt - like 99% of them hunt/browse. And they use the "Last Active" page to click on the pics of guys they like the look of most. Your wide and happy smile will get you truckloads of profile visits. They do ultimately want you for money one way or another (either by marriage or P4P), but they always start with your looks. So, say "SEX" when having your profile picture taken - looks do matter.

2. YOU use the "Last Active" page to click on the ones you like - they are all online then and there. A "mouse over" their pic will tell you their age and country. I actually "right mouse click; open in new tab" the ones I like, because on the refresh of the "Last Active" page, I'll normally find 4-6 hot ones I want to know more about - clicking directly on the first one I like will see that Last Active page refreshed with new faces and I'd lose the other potentials.

3. Search for your age range, city and of course country. Then visit their profiles. Many of these girls visit the profiles of who visited theirs. The more profiles you visit the more return clicks you'll get. That is, they are curious about who visited their profiles, and if you have the smiling happy face, you can bet many will visit your profile in return to check you out - if your profile pic is a big smile.

4. Always "Show Interest" in the ones you are interested in. It only takes the click of a button, and you'll be able to find the ones you've short-listed easily later. This is very important. There truly is so many of them that you do need this to keep track. Plus your interest shown gets you the highest chance of a visit to your profile. That is, you not only visited their profile page, you showed interest in them. And most women cannot deny their curiosity to check you out in return - if your profile pic is a big smile.

5. Never just say only Hi or Hello. That's the quickest way to prove you are fuckwit incapable of anything interesting to say.

Your first message on DIA is not like in a bar where you are face to face and you say hello; it's more like a first date. And the most important thing about a first date anywhere in life is........getting a second fucking date! If you make the first message, make it interesting but not long.

Let's call this messaging like a game of Tennis or Ping Pong, and it's your serve. Your job is to see how long you can keep the (ping-pong chat) ball flying over the net. Make your first message prove to her that you did read her profile, by commenting on her profile AND asking a question. DIA won't let you copy and paste a standard message anyway. Make your first message to her cause her to NEED AND WANT to reply back. Remember, you're not in a nightclub under stress - you have all the time you need to craft a next message that keeps the "ping-pong chat-ball" in play.

When you get more skilled at ping-pong chat, you'll be able to easily control where you hit the ball and get them to chase it. But do think 2-3 moves ahead. It's NOT about how long you can waste time chatting. Have a plan of where you want to take the chat. You are the man for fuck's sake!

And do use the : ) (with no spaces) keyboard shortcut, as they respond well to lots of smilie emoticons.

6. Keep your sleazy chat out of it!

There's and old truism or saying: "treat ladies like sluts, and treat sluts like ladies".

I do hunt for the inner naughty girl in women, but sluts only respond to respectful charm and humor. Sleaze is such a low IQ waste of time. I never grow/explore the naughty girl side of them in less than 10-50 messages exchanged first out of respect and trust building. Finding their inner-naughty girl without being a sleaze is the real key to success.

Indirectly is the way of Asia. Do you even belong here? Prove it!

7. Install Yahoo Messenger and a cam.

Almost everyone in Phils uses YM, and they will want to see your FACE on cam. Most are looking for face to face time, not sex-cam action. Certainly DIA is perfect for vacationing men looking for a 1-3 weeks girlfriend.

8. They are all very sensitive to butterflies.

We know you flutter around the garden of life, because you really are God's gift to fucking and fluttering, but it offends her to know that about you. So shut the fuck up about how many women want you! SHE's your focus, is she feeling special?

9. Don't expect a long profile description to be read.

Most of those who like me selected me on the (SMILING) pic and our exchange of (NON-sleazy) messages. My long profile was supposed to filter out the less well-read and lower IQ girls, but it hasn't worked at all. It's all about your smiling photo to get results.

By all means have a long profile if you want a smart girl, but dumb ones will still add you anyway.

10. Know your Chinese years of birth and horoscope star signs. Filipino girls don't know them - much less than western women. I've caught a number of girls (about 20) out by them using the wrong Chinese year in their profiles when compared to the ages they claim. They turned out to be 15, 16 or 17, and not the stated 18-21 years old.

11. It's still all the usual rules of pick-up.

Charming is helpful, being funny is essential. Talking about their beauty is DUMB!!! It's Ping-Pong chat - keep it interesting, not complicated and keep it flowing.

The best difference from real life meeting is that online in DIA, you get the time to craft your reply with precision, so use that stress-free time to craft your words well.....

Respectful always! Sleaze is a waste of time totally. You really are a low-life twit and you're masturbating in public if you think your money is what really counts before meeting face to face and before the sexual fun starts! It maybe important for her after the fact......, she does have to live.....but she also has some dignity, let her true sexual flower show itself with some grace.

.......MANY a bar girl has turned her nose up at a wad of cash held by a non-similing German or Korean and the (why is it the too often) arrogant American ego.....

I do talk about my love of sex AFTER I have built trust, but never about me being horny then and there in early chats.

They want to measure us (men?) when we are not horny. The best way for us to achieve that for them is for us to be a REAL MAN and to lead them with our own sexual secrets, gently. Let them explore us fully; it's not our time so early in chats to ram it down their throats. This ain't the jail-house Bubba.

She, just like in all dance will follow your lead. Talking sexual is not the same as being horny and out of control. They cannot open up, until they know it is safe to do so. Get them safe and curious!

12. Nearly forgot to mention. Logon and off every 30 minutes. This will keep your smiling pic on the "Last Active" page :). Being on this page is what will get you most of your profile visitors.

13. This is VERY IMPORTANT. And I am a professional because of this! Every girl I chat with is a use of my time. I am always crystal clear that I am going to fuck HER, or she is going to introduce me to her friend/sister or whoever else that I am going to fuck.

I sincerely do treat every contact, and with my every message as my next fuck. If for any reason I am not any more interested in fucking the one I am chatting to, I immediately move my head-space to plan how this girl will get me laid by her friend.

If she is not on my cock, then she is my AGENT!!!

Evenings will see 12,000 plus online at any one time, mostly ladies. This later dropping down to still 4,000 by 6am local PI time. 90% are Filipino women.

Ladyboys are usually honest about it in their profiles. Just as well, as they'd often be difficult to spot otherwise.

Hope this helps.

Phil

Edited by Dancing Phil, 04 February 2012 - 08:49 PM.

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Posted 04 February 2012 - 08:27 PM

Some good common sense advice :Thanks3:

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Posted 04 February 2012 - 08:49 PM

I'm a ex-professional seducer - meaning that I USED to live the life as a Gigolo or naughty girl (mostly to married women in Australia, USA and China). Though I marketed myself as a "sex-teacher", I was basically paid to find the inner naughty girl in these women, make sluts of them and paid to send them home to their husbands thoroughly used, often shaved and much happier for the experience.

And I don't give a fuck if you judge me badly for that. I have been paid very well, and I've learned a lot by teaching sex and seduction to these married women.

I wrote the below to help a dude out on another forum, because he was unsure how to get solid results from DIA.

DEFINITELY www.dateinasia.com (DIA) rocks for finding the ladies of any age group you want. Totally free, it's easy to navigate and to stay organized with your messaging hundreds of girls. With perhaps a membership of circa 80,000-100,000 (mostly Filipino girls) - and more than 12,000 online at one time during each day in the evenings.

Tips to succeed are:

1. Stick a LARGE SMILING FACE PIC on your profile. Most of the girls hunt - like 99% of them hunt/browse. And they use the "Last Active" page to click on the pics of guys they like the look of most. Your wide and happy smile will get you truckloads of profile visits. They do ultimately want you for money one way or another (either by marriage or P4P), but they always start with your looks. So, say "SEX" when having your profile picture taken - looks do matter.

2. YOU use the "Last Active" page to click on the ones you like - they are all online then and there. A mouse over will tell you their age and country. I actually "right mouse click; open in new tab" the ones I like, because on one refresh of the "Last Active" page, I'll normally find 4-6 hot ones I want to know more about - clicking directly one the first one I like will see that Last Active page refreshed with new faces and I'd lose the other potentials.

3. Search for your age range, city and of course country. Then visit their profiles. Many of these girls visit the profiles of who visited theirs. The more profiles you visit the more return clicks you'll get. That is, they are curious about who visited their profiles, and if you have the smiling happy face, you can bet most will visit your profile in return to check you out.

4. Always "Show Interest" in the ones you are interested in. It only takes the click of a button, and you'll be able to find the ones you've short-listed easily later. This is very important. There truly is so many of them that you do need this to keep track. Plus your interest shown gets you a high chance of a visit to your profile. That is, you not only visited their profile page, you showed interest in them. And most cannot deny their curiosity to check you out in return.

5. Never just say only Hi or Hello. That's the quickest way to prove you are fuckwit incapable of anything interesting to say.

Your first message on DIA is not like in a bar where you are face to face and you say hello; it's more like a first date. And the most important thing about a first date anywhere in life is........getting a second fucking date! If you make the first message, make it interesting but not long.

Let's call this messaging a game of Tennis or Ping Pong, and it's your serve. Your job is to see how long you can keep the (ping-pong chat) ball flying over the net. Make your first message prove to her that you did read her profile, by commenting on her profile. DIA won't let you copy and paste anyway. Make your first message to her need her to reply back.

When you get more skilled at ping-pong chat, you'll be able to easily control where you hit the ball and get them to chase it. But do think 3 moves ahead. Have a plan of where you want to take the chat. You are the man for fuck's sake!

And do use the : ) (with no spaces) keyboard shortcut, as they respond well to lots of smilie emoticons.

6. Keep your sleazy chat out of it!

There's and old truism or saying: treat ladies like sluts, and treat sluts like ladies. I do hunt for the inner naughty girl in women, but sluts only respond to respectful charm. Sleaze is such a low IQ waste of time. I never grow/explore the naughty girl side of them in less than 10-50 messages exchanged first out of respect and trust building. Finding their inner-naughty girl without being a sleaze is the real key to success.

Indirectly is the way of Asia. Do you even belong here? Prove it!

7. Install Yahoo Messenger and a cam.

Almost everyone in Phils uses YM, and they will want to see your FACE on cam. Most are looking for face to face time, not sex-cam action. Certainly DIA is perfect for vacationing men looking for a 1-3 weeks girlfriend.

8. They are all very sensitive to butterflies.

We know you flutter around the garden of life, because you really are God's gift to fucking fluttering, but it offends her to know that about you. So shut the fuck up about how many women want you! She's your focus, is she feeling special?

9. Don't expect a long profile description to be read.

Most of those who like me selected me on the (SMILING) pic and our exchange of (NON-sleazy) messages. My long profile was supposed to filter out the less well-read, but it hasn't worked at all. It's all about your smiling photo to get results.

10. Know your Chinese years of birth and horoscope star signs. Filipino girls don't know them - much less than western women. I've caught a number of girls (about 20) out by them using the wrong Chinese year in their profiles when compared to the ages they claim. They turned out to be 15, 16 or 17, and not the stated 18-21 years old.

11. It's still all the usual rules of pick-up.

Charming is helpful, being funny is essential. Talking about their beauty is DUMB!!! It's Ping-Pong chat - keep it interesting, not complicated and keep it flowing.

The best difference from real life meeting is here you get the time to craft your reply, so use that and craft your words well.....

Respectful always! Sleaze is a waste of time totally. You really are a low-life twit and you're masturbating in public if you think your money is what really counts before meeting face to face and before the sexual fun starts! It maybe important for her after the fact......, she does have to live.....

.......but MANY a bar girl turned her nose up at a wad of cash held by a non-similing German or Korean and the (why is it the too often) arrogant American ego.....

I do talk about my love of sex AFTER I have built trust, but never about me being horny then and there in early chats.

They want to measure us (men?) when we are not horny. The best way for us to achieve that for them is for us to be a REAL MAN and to lead them with our own sexual secrets, gently. Let them explore us fully; it's not our time so early in chats to ram it down their throats. This ain't the jail-house Bubba.

She, just like in all dance will follow your lead. Talking sexual is not the same as being horny and out of control. They cannot open up, until they know it is safe to do so. Get them safe and curious!

12. Nearly forgot to mention. Logon and off every 30 minutes. This will keep your smiling pic on the "Last Active" page :). Being on this page is what will get you most of your profile visitors.

13. This is VERY IMPORTANT. And I am a professional because of this! Every girl I chat with is a use of my time. I am always crystal clear that I am going to fuck HER, or she is going to introduce me to her friend/sister or whoever else that I am going to fuck.

I sincerely do treat every contact, and with my every message as my next fuck. If for any reason I am not any more interested in fucking the one I am chatting to, I immediately move my head-space to plan how this girl will get me laid by her friend.

If she is not on my cock, then she is my AGENT!!!

Evenings will see 12,000 plus online at any one time, mostly ladies. This later dropping down to still 4,000 by 6am local PI time. 90% are Filipino women.

Ladyboys are usually honest about it in their profiles. Just as well, as they'd often be difficult to spot otherwise.

Hope this helps.

Phil





All good besides DIA sucks. Just ask their FB or leave your own so they can add you.
You have better chat and tons of albums on FB to know more about her even before
you chat .

Edited by mngweco, 04 February 2012 - 09:01 PM.


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Posted 04 February 2012 - 09:07 PM

I disagree DIA is great....some very good advice there Phil thanks mate, honest and very useful

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Posted 04 February 2012 - 09:59 PM

I disagree DIA is great....some very good advice there Phil thanks mate, honest and very useful





DIA is great but you need to filter hundreds of girls contact you. I have no time for video chat so FB is best option
If you write on your profile your YM and FB address they will add you directly

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Posted 04 February 2012 - 11:05 PM

benefit of the doubt - post removed - very thorough post

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Posted 04 February 2012 - 11:13 PM

Interesting.

Thanks for the info

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Posted 04 February 2012 - 11:48 PM

Either way Dancing Phil makes some very good points. I hear all to often from these girls how angry sad and disappointed they get from guys just messaging them for cam sex ect. Filipinas are sweethearts deep down, even the naughty girls don't want to "Feel like a naughty girl".

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Posted 05 February 2012 - 03:33 AM

Another good tip is learn some basic Tagalog or Cebuano and throw in a few lines into the conversation here and there. They like it, especially compliments like "gwapa kah die" etc

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Posted 05 February 2012 - 05:01 AM

thank you so much good information :SexClick1:

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Posted 05 February 2012 - 11:04 AM

Interesting read. Lots of good advice. Thanks for posting.

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Posted 05 February 2012 - 11:17 AM

Thanks for the advice Phil...

Wouldn't mind seeing yur profile in DIA for a better example of what you write in your profile....I mean I need all the help I can get as now aproaching 60 (yuckkk)...lol

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Posted 05 February 2012 - 11:53 AM

Thanks for the advice Phil...

Wouldn't mind seeing yur profile in DIA for a better example of what you write in your profile....I mean I need all the help I can get as now aproaching 60 (yuckkk)...lol


My Profile is not so special. As I said in the first post, the wide smiling pic is what captures most of the moths in spotlight. Discussing being a retired sex teacher has intrigued many and been the subject of many chats with new friends. There's a LOT more married women chatting on DIA looking for extra spice than you would guess, but out of respect of Bender's greater wisdom, I won't be doing married gigi in PI.

Phil

ps, no, I have no affiliation with DIA. I only learned the site existed when one of my sluts in China told me about it last April. And it was from meeting PI babes on DIA that I selected PI to be my new home. Roll on April, I'm bored with china now.

pps, this may surprise many to know it, but 70% of Chinese women cannot and will never orgasm! Boring.....

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Posted 05 February 2012 - 12:27 PM

Great points..only thing you left is how to deal with scammers part...many newbiews after reading your points will find thats its a walk in the park in DIA...and will at some point cross over scammers and they will then go down the hill..

I think besides all the above good points...a good discernment strategy is also needed..like if a girl says...f*** me in the ass but you have to pay for my air fare so send me 5000 pesos...is not a good idea...to think with your john rather..use discernment and dig her for more info....great points over all

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Posted 05 February 2012 - 01:56 PM

I'm a ex-professional seducer - meaning that I USED to live the life as a Gigolo or naughty girl (mostly to married women in Australia, USA and China). Though I marketed myself as a "sex-teacher", I was basically paid to find the inner naughty girl in these women, make sluts of them and paid to send them home to their husbands thoroughly used, often shaved and much happier for the experience.

And I don't give a fuck if you judge me badly for that. I have been paid very well, and I've learned a lot by teaching sex and seduction to these married women.

I wrote the below to help a dude out on another forum, because he was unsure how to get solid results from DIA.

DEFINITELY www.dateinasia.com (DIA) rocks for finding the ladies of any age group you want. Totally free, it's easy to navigate and to stay organized with your messaging hundreds of girls. With perhaps a membership of circa 80,000-100,000 (mostly Filipino girls) - and more than 12,000 online at one time during each day in the evenings.

Tips to succeed are:

1. Stick a LARGE SMILING FACE PIC on your profile. Most of the girls hunt - like 99% of them hunt/browse. And they use the "Last Active" page to click on the pics of guys they like the look of most. Your wide and happy smile will get you truckloads of profile visits. They do ultimately want you for money one way or another (either by marriage or P4P), but they always start with your looks. So, say "SEX" when having your profile picture taken - looks do matter.

2. YOU use the "Last Active" page to click on the ones you like - they are all online then and there. A "mouse over" their pic will tell you their age and country. I actually "right mouse click; open in new tab" the ones I like, because on the refresh of the "Last Active" page, I'll normally find 4-6 hot ones I want to know more about - clicking directly on the first one I like will see that Last Active page refreshed with new faces and I'd lose the other potentials.

3. Search for your age range, city and of course country. Then visit their profiles. Many of these girls visit the profiles of who visited theirs. The more profiles you visit the more return clicks you'll get. That is, they are curious about who visited their profiles, and if you have the smiling happy face, you can bet many will visit your profile in return to check you out - if your profile pic is a big smile.

4. Always "Show Interest" in the ones you are interested in. It only takes the click of a button, and you'll be able to find the ones you've short-listed easily later. This is very important. There truly is so many of them that you do need this to keep track. Plus your interest shown gets you the highest chance of a visit to your profile. That is, you not only visited their profile page, you showed interest in them. And most women cannot deny their curiosity to check you out in return - if your profile pic is a big smile.

5. Never just say only Hi or Hello. That's the quickest way to prove you are fuckwit incapable of anything interesting to say.

Your first message on DIA is not like in a bar where you are face to face and you say hello; it's more like a first date. And the most important thing about a first date anywhere in life is........getting a second fucking date! If you make the first message, make it interesting but not long.

Let's call this messaging like a game of Tennis or Ping Pong, and it's your serve. Your job is to see how long you can keep the (ping-pong chat) ball flying over the net. Make your first message prove to her that you did read her profile, by commenting on her profile AND asking a question. DIA won't let you copy and paste a standard message anyway. Make your first message to her cause her to NEED AND WANT to reply back. Remember, you're not in a nightclub under stress - you have all the time you need to craft a next message that keeps the "ping-pong chat-ball" in play.

When you get more skilled at ping-pong chat, you'll be able to easily control where you hit the ball and get them to chase it. But do think 2-3 moves ahead. It's NOT about how long you can waste time chatting. Have a plan of where you want to take the chat. You are the man for fuck's sake!

And do use the : ) (with no spaces) keyboard shortcut, as they respond well to lots of smilie emoticons.

6. Keep your sleazy chat out of it!

There's and old truism or saying: "treat ladies like sluts, and treat sluts like ladies".

I do hunt for the inner naughty girl in women, but sluts only respond to respectful charm and humor. Sleaze is such a low IQ waste of time. I never grow/explore the naughty girl side of them in less than 10-50 messages exchanged first out of respect and trust building. Finding their inner-naughty girl without being a sleaze is the real key to success.

Indirectly is the way of Asia. Do you even belong here? Prove it!

7. Install Yahoo Messenger and a cam.

Almost everyone in Phils uses YM, and they will want to see your FACE on cam. Most are looking for face to face time, not sex-cam action. Certainly DIA is perfect for vacationing men looking for a 1-3 weeks girlfriend.

8. They are all very sensitive to butterflies.

We know you flutter around the garden of life, because you really are God's gift to fucking and fluttering, but it offends her to know that about you. So shut the fuck up about how many women want you! SHE's your focus, is she feeling special?

9. Don't expect a long profile description to be read.

Most of those who like me selected me on the (SMILING) pic and our exchange of (NON-sleazy) messages. My long profile was supposed to filter out the less well-read and lower IQ girls, but it hasn't worked at all. It's all about your smiling photo to get results.

By all means have a long profile if you want a smart girl, but dumb ones will still add you anyway.

10. Know your Chinese years of birth and horoscope star signs. Filipino girls don't know them - much less than western women. I've caught a number of girls (about 20) out by them using the wrong Chinese year in their profiles when compared to the ages they claim. They turned out to be 15, 16 or 17, and not the stated 18-21 years old.

11. It's still all the usual rules of pick-up.

Charming is helpful, being funny is essential. Talking about their beauty is DUMB!!! It's Ping-Pong chat - keep it interesting, not complicated and keep it flowing.

The best difference from real life meeting is that online in DIA, you get the time to craft your reply with precision, so use that stress-free time to craft your words well.....

Respectful always! Sleaze is a waste of time totally. You really are a low-life twit and you're masturbating in public if you think your money is what really counts before meeting face to face and before the sexual fun starts! It maybe important for her after the fact......, she does have to live.....but she also has some dignity, let her true sexual flower show itself with some grace.

.......MANY a bar girl has turned her nose up at a wad of cash held by a non-similing German or Korean and the (why is it the too often) arrogant American ego.....

I do talk about my love of sex AFTER I have built trust, but never about me being horny then and there in early chats.

They want to measure us (men?) when we are not horny. The best way for us to achieve that for them is for us to be a REAL MAN and to lead them with our own sexual secrets, gently. Let them explore us fully; it's not our time so early in chats to ram it down their throats. This ain't the jail-house Bubba.

She, just like in all dance will follow your lead. Talking sexual is not the same as being horny and out of control. They cannot open up, until they know it is safe to do so. Get them safe and curious!

12. Nearly forgot to mention. Logon and off every 30 minutes. This will keep your smiling pic on the "Last Active" page :). Being on this page is what will get you most of your profile visitors.

13. This is VERY IMPORTANT. And I am a professional because of this! Every girl I chat with is a use of my time. I am always crystal clear that I am going to fuck HER, or she is going to introduce me to her friend/sister or whoever else that I am going to fuck.

I sincerely do treat every contact, and with my every message as my next fuck. If for any reason I am not any more interested in fucking the one I am chatting to, I immediately move my head-space to plan how this girl will get me laid by her friend.

If she is not on my cock, then she is my AGENT!!!

Evenings will see 12,000 plus online at any one time, mostly ladies. This later dropping down to still 4,000 by 6am local PI time. 90% are Filipino women.

Ladyboys are usually honest about it in their profiles. Just as well, as they'd often be difficult to spot otherwise.

Hope this helps.

Phil


Thanks, Dr Phil.

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Posted 05 February 2012 - 06:20 PM

I have added this on another post, but here are some of the things I do on DIA....

A lot of these girls use the same profile name on multiple sites. If you google that user name, a lot of times it will show other websites they belong to, even FB. A lot of these girls have multiple accounts, which is OK and great, but you can find out a lot of truth about these girls on the web. A couple of examples....I had a girl message me saying she was looking for a husband only to find her recent wedding photos on FB. Another girl sent me a message and on her profile were phrases like "not here for money", "God fearing', "good girl", etc. Her user name was linked to several cam sites and other adult sites with her picture. I can go on about lying about age to outdated photos, but I think you get the point. I realize this method can take up time, but if you do find one (or 12) you are interested in this might save you the time of useless conversations.

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Posted 05 February 2012 - 07:42 PM

I'm doing the 30 minute refresh thing now...that seems to be working well...

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Posted 06 February 2012 - 01:54 AM

you forgot to mention in the report ,that if they ask you if you are in the Philippines , or where you live?
if you say Australia or usa etc and you are not currently in the Philippines , they lose interest quick smart, i think its only good for flirting or if you have the blues whaen coming back from the Philippines ,
for me just not enough time when im in town to waste on random DIA girls , too much work, my hands are always full.....
BUt good for flirting or for newbies!!!

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Posted 06 February 2012 - 02:21 AM

pps, this may surprise many to know it, but 70% of Chinese women cannot and will never orgasm! Boring.....


Strange because my experience is just the opposite - many will have multiple orgasms!

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Posted 06 February 2012 - 02:23 AM

Agree with all said..its a great site for getting laid

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Posted 06 February 2012 - 05:54 AM

you forgot to mention in the report ,that if they ask you if you are in the Philippines , or where you live?
if you say Australia or usa etc and you are not currently in the Philippines , they lose interest quick smart, i think its only good for flirting or if you have the blues whaen coming back from the Philippines ,
for me just not enough time when im in town to waste on random DIA girls , too much work, my hands are always full.....
BUt good for flirting or for newbies!!!




When they ask you when you plan to be in AC always say in a few weeks, never few months, otherwise they won`t bother with you

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Posted 06 February 2012 - 07:11 AM

Strange because my experience is just the opposite - many will have multiple orgasms!


I am quoting University research findings as quoted in the newspaper here in China last year. Sex is a huge taboo here in China, and so it was very surprising to find such a survey had been undertaken, and that the results were published. The research also indicated an extremely low instance of masturbation and oral sex.

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Posted 06 February 2012 - 07:21 AM

you forgot to mention in the report ,that if they ask you if you are in the Philippines , or where you live?
if you say Australia or usa etc and you are not currently in the Philippines , they lose interest quick smart, i think its only good for flirting or if you have the blues whaen coming back from the Philippines ,
for me just not enough time when im in town to waste on random DIA girls , too much work, my hands are always full.....
BUt good for flirting or for newbies!!!


This is mostly true.

In fact I am not interested in accumulating them as chat-mates wasting my time. I want them to leave me alone after I have built a healthy interest in them. While I have built a number of excellent long term friendships from who I have learned a great deal about PI, I also have more than 400 ladies packed, stacked and racked ready for me to re-establish contact with .....in my DIA contacts list.....to hit the ground running.

That being true, I'm also just as likely to forget about all of them and begin my hunting in the real world there after I get settled.

Phil

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Posted 06 February 2012 - 08:45 AM

I am quoting University research findings as quoted in the newspaper here in China last year. Sex is a huge taboo here in China, and so it was very surprising to find such a survey had been undertaken, and that the results were published. The research also indicated an extremely low instance of masturbation and oral sex.


In that case, I can well understand!!! Chinese men, as I have heard from Chinese women, are as romantic as a bull in heat; foreplay consists of spreading the ladies legs, then jump on and in, pump for 30 seconds, then roll off. Like the joke that Korean women tell - which comes and goes faster; a green traffic light or a Korean man in bed?

One Chinese lady I 'met' told me that she thought she was frigid because she could not orgasm with her husband! She ecstatically found out she most definitely wasn't.

Although,it appears to me that for the vast majority of Chinese women the ‘joy of living’ comes a far distance second to security and material wealth。They want a prosperous prince, not a pleasure prince。

Edited by acomeau, 06 February 2012 - 09:40 AM.


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Posted 06 February 2012 - 12:09 PM

I have taken a similar approach on the internet before too. It's not hard to be 'different' to most other guys.

Funny is critical. Do not be boring!

Tease her. Man there is a whole stack of info out there on how to do all this.

Great post Phil.




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